Sunday, November 29, 2009

Thanksgiving

My Mom came to visit us in Chicago for Thanksgiving this year. I made a semi-small Thanksgiving for just the three of us. We still got stuffed as usual and still have lots of leftovers!
We went and to see the Christmas Carol movie in 3D, it was pretty cool with the new "Real 3D" that they have. It was a little scary though and I wouldn't recommend it for little kids at all. Amazing what they can do with animation these days, it looked SO real!
We went out to eat one night at Hopleaf for yummy mussels and Belgian beer and another night to Chicago Pizza and Oven Grinder for Pizza Pot Pies. Mmmm, so yummy!
(www.hopleaf.com & www.chicagopizzaandovengrinder.com)
Here are some photos from the weekend. We didn't take too many and a lot of them were taken on my cell phone so they aren't that great. Enjoy!
3D Glasses

Monday, November 16, 2009

Jury Duty Adventure

I thought I needed to post something since its been a while. It's been an eventful couple of weeks.

I had jury duty a couple of weeks ago, was selected for a trial (of course), so I'll start with that. This is old news to some of you, but oh well. Here goes my story. So, in Chicago it's apparently a pretty big deal, being a big city and all, I guess that makes sense. I reported to the big criminal court building on for my "day of service" assuming that I was going to be bored out of my mind sitting there all day. It really wasn't anything like that! Not only was it like a major event with bajillions of people there (yes, I said bajillions), it was pretty interesting as well! (or at least I thought it was)
The room we sat in was HUGE. Probably half of an entire floor of this building pretty much filled to the brim with theater type seats. People just plopped down and waited for their "panel" number to be called. Honestly, it was like bingo. Every time the man in the suit would walk up to the mic everyone would listen intently for their "lucky number" to be called. I waited all morning as he called several numbers close to mine, but he didn't call mine until almost noon. When he finally called it I wanted to jump up and yell, "I won, I won!!"....but I had to pretend I was as unexcited as the rest of the people there.
The worst part about it was all the waiting, even once my panel was called. We had to line up, 2 by 2, like we were in prison and wait there forever for the sheriff to escort us over to the courthouse.
I sat in a courtroom briefly for one trial and then we were dismissed right away for lunch. We came back and they let us go because some things about the case had changed. I went back to the bingo room and right away my panel was called again! Woo-hoo! I won again! But, this time it was for real.

We were taken into the courtroom and names were called to go sit in the jury box area. Mine was one of them. We were then "briefed" on the general type of trial, length, etc. It was a murder trial, first degree murder and also another weapons charge, something about firing a weapon with the intent to kill or do some physical harm, I cant remember exactly now. I was nervous yet intrigued! I wanted to see how this whole justice system worked! Plus, this was way cooler than being on some lame civil trial. So after we were picked the entire group of potential jurors was questioned out in the open by the judge, in front of the attorneys, the defendant, and the other people who were in the courtroom. It was not like I had pictured at all. After all the questions and discussion among the attorneys, several people were let go, people with criminal records and people who had family with criminal records and tons of other things. I of course was picked and was a juror for that trial.

The trial didn't start until the following day. This time we had to report directly to the jury room for that courtroom. These rooms were so old and nasty. The bathrooms looked like they were from the 50's or older. The whole place was in serious need of an update! Whew!

Anyway...back to the trial. I found out that I was an "alternate juror" along with one other guy, which meant we would sit and listen to the trial but would not be allowed to deliberate at the end and decide the case. BOO! I was so mad....excited that I got to stay and watch, but mad I didn't get to talk to these people about the case and help make a decision. :-(

The trial went all day one day and part of the next. It was eye opening to see attorneys, witnesses, the judge, all in action. It really opened my eyes to how it all works and how good some lawyers are! The way they got right in our face and the defendants face was rather intimidating, and very convincing. I knew then that I could have never been a lawyer,... I'm not a good liar nor sales person, but it sure was interesting to watch. Interesting enough that for one second I thought, "I could definitely be a professional juror!" Too bad the salary of $17.20 per day isn't quite enough to live on. Ha! ;-)

So the trial ended the second day and I was let go. They sheriff for the case called me at home to let me know the verdict was reached so that I knew I could talk about the case at that point. It was tough not talking about it with Joe or Cathy or anyone I talk to on a regular basis! I did it though! I followed the "order" of the judge and didn't tell.
It was a guilty verdict and I was glad to hear it because that's what I would've said as well. It was a sad case, but pretty easy to decide based on the witnesses testimonies.

All in all, what I took away from this experience was more than getting to see the inner workings of a trial and courthouse, but really seeing,...seeing up close and personal the people who are affected by and who involve themselves in this kind of crime. You know, probably almost every night on the news here in Chicago, we hear about this type of gun violence mainly on the far South side of the city and some other areas. However, it doesn't really register when you live so separated from it and you only see a two line story in the paper or hear a 1 minute story on the news. It is real when you are forced to see it on the jury for the trial of a kid who was probably 18 at the time that he pulled out a gun and shot multiple times at 2 other kids who were in front of their own home. He killed one of them, left him dead on the street, like it was no big deal. It was sad to see photos of the dead boy and hear his family members testify. I felt bad for them as well as the defendant. What a sad life to live, thinking that at 18 years old its OK to kill someone, or to think you are not going to get caught doing it. How sad. I will probably never forget the story that I heard and those faces that I saw that day. How truly sad that this goes on everyday, probably SO much more than we will ever know.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Um, what?

The whole job thing is a mess now. The residential firm that originally offered me the job has now "reopened" the position,...whatever that means?!? All of this AFTER I sent them some questions and AFTER I accepted their offer. After all of that they email me to tell me that they have re-opened it,...Um, what? At this point they are acting so unprofessional and rude that I can't even imagine working there, so who cares I guess. We'll see what happens, but if they contact me again to talk about me working there, I am definitely going to raise my eyebrow.

I think they just didn't want someone working for them who was not a push-over, a person who would sign on the dotted line without even thinking it over. Well, that is not me. Everyone deserves a day or two to think about a job offer! Moving on.....

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Our Howl-O-Ween

Hope you all had a Happy Halloween!

Joe and I are not really that into Halloween, or at least I never think I am until a couple days before, then I always wish I had a costume and was going out to do something fun. We have only dressed up once since we've been together! Crazy, I know....I guess I figure that when we have a kids it will be more reason to get into the Halloween spirit.

But we did do something fun this year that didn't involve us dressing up. We took Chloe and Louie to this Howl-O-Ween Dog Parade and Costume Contest over in a little park in a neighborhood a few blocks from ours. We didn't get them costumes, they just sported their Halloween t-shirts instead. It turned out to be pretty fun! We knew Chloe would love it, because she loves people and all other dogs, but we were a little worried about Louie. If any of you have seen him on a walk and how he reacts to other dogs, just picture the Tasmanian Devil (if he barked) on a leash. Yep, its fun. For some reason, probably fear, he barks and then snaps and tries to bite other dogs a lot. He is good sometimes, but most of the time he can't handle it. So I brought some treats in my pocket thinking I could distract him a little bit. It worked,... sort of. We meant to bring his favorite ball, because a ball in the mouth means no biting and almost no barking (trust me, he still attempts to bark with a ball in his mouth...ha ha), but we forgot it when we left. Oops.

Anyway, when we got there I think Louie was so overwhelmed by all the people and dogs (must have known he was out numbered) that he was pretty quiet. He did pretty well until he got comfortable. He only snapped at a couple dogs, so that was pretty good, right?! Joe and I ended up holding him for a lot of the time. Chloe had a blast though. The "parade" part was fun too, we pretty much went up one block and over one block and it was really slow because they were judging at the end, so it was more of a line than a parade, but it was still fun. It was a chilly fall day, but at least we did something! The dogs were pooped and we got some good ideas for costumes for next year! ha-ha.
Some pics are below or you can view the whole album if you click the link below...
http://share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=0IbtHLNo3ZMnRQ

Louie trying to behave

Me and the dogs Happy Chloe
On the way there...excited! (These are out of order)

More job talk...

The meeting with the commercial firm didn't go so well. I mean, the guy seemed nice and he seemed to like me and all, but he told me he was not going to be making any sort of decision on hiring for another 3-4 weeks. So I pretty much decided that can't make the residential firm wait that long just to see if I even get the commercial one. I have a feeling I wouldn't have gotten it anyway because the position seemed like it required a little more experience than I have. So oh well.... Not the end of the world except for I then had to think about actually accepting the offer from the residential firm and actually working there. Again, I know I sound so ungrateful, but I really can't say enough how residential and commercial design are two totally separate worlds. I immediately started freaking out about never being able to get a job in commercial again if I take the residential one.....I guess desperate times call for desperate measures. Lots of people are telling me not to take it because I will hate it and they can't see me working there, but I feel like I can't wait anymore and be unemployed, or partially unemployed. Its just been too hard for Joe and I. I need to make money again!

So anyway, I had the meeting with the residential firm and reviewed their offer right before the commercial interview. Their offer was less than I had hoped, but I told them I would get back to them regarding my decision next week. I will probably counter their offer and try to get more money out of them. Especially since I have a feeling, due to many of my friends observations and my own, that this place is not going to be fun to work at at all! I am going to see what I can get and then look at it as a temporary thing...something to get me by to my next commercial job. I just hope it comes fast because I just might lose my passion for design working at this place. :-(

So that's the job update for now. I'm in a weird place. I know what I should do, but I don't know if its what I want to do. I might just have to grin and bear it and that sucks.